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  • The Secret of the Black Butterfly

    The Secret of the Black Butterfly

    Fiegel was raised in an orphanage, where she was abandoned on the doorstep less than a week after her birth. Her unique background made her a loner, and the year she graduated from nursing school, she fell in love with Bill, a street gangster. Fiegel gave up her chance to work at the hospital and followed Bill into smoking, drinking, fighting in gangs, and running off to burglarize convenience stores. This depraved life was made unrepentant by the love that backed her up. In the heat of the moment, she and Bill went to get tattoos together, and both of them got an identical black butterfly tattooed on their respective right shoulders.

    Once, Fiegel’s group went to rob a convenience store again, and was spotted and reported to the police, who came whizzing by in a police car. Fijil fell to the ground and couldn’t stand up because she broke her foot, but Bill left her and ran away with the rest of his companions. Seeing that the police were about to arrive, Fijil cried out in despair because she didn’t want to go to the correctional center.

    The owner of the store, an old woman, had been cowering in a corner since the beginning. At the very moment when the police rushed in, the old lady suddenly darted over to help Fijil, and she told the police that Fijil was hired by her to work in the convenience store. The police turned their heads to pursue the fugitive, and Fijil narrowly escaped. Afterward, the old lady finished bandaging her wounds and urged her to mend her ways in the future.

    After this incident, Fijil suddenly like a different person, she and the group of friends from now on to draw a line, and put an end to that kind of decadent life. But Bill often came to harass her, not give her a chance to be a new person. In the end, Fergie had to leave her hometown and go to a faraway town called Grasse.

    The small town of Grasse is a nice place where people live peacefully and happily, and Fiegel works as a caregiver at the town’s clinic, a job she enjoys very much. In addition to work, she also used her time off to volunteer to help those in need, Fijil feel the value of life. Gradually, the people in the town fell in love with the always-smiling caregiver.

    One day at noon, a young man named Blair was brought into the clinic, he was hit in the head by a falling object and bled a lot. Figiel cleaned his wound, bandaged it, and put an IV in it. When she realized that no family had come to pick up Blair, she took him home again herself. Hearing that Blair was a local councillor, Fijil immediately asked him to build a volunteer society in the town, as there was no volunteer organization in the town as yet. Blair was in a difficult position, after all, there were so many things to prepare for starting a society, but he promised Fijil that he would do his best.

    More than a year later, Blair’s application was finally approved, and the town had its own volunteer organization, with Blair recommending Fijil as the head. In addition to caring for the elderly and poor children, the volunteer group even took in street cats and dogs. Fiegel’s good deeds became more and more known, and she was eventually featured on the local TV station, where she was affectionately known as Angel Gee.

    Blair is captivated by Figgie’s kindness and beauty, and he begins to pursue her. However, Faye feels that she doesn’t deserve the perfect Blair, so she politely refuses. Blair doesn’t give up, he sends flowers to the clinic every day and insists on volunteering with Faye. Blair’s infatuation is rumored to be a good story, and Faye is eventually touched and agrees to marry him.

    On the first night of their marriage, Blair discovered a tattoo on his wife’s right shoulder, and asked Fijil: “Honey, what is this?

    Fijil replied with a smile: It’s a butterfly, dear.

    Of course I know it’s a butterfly, but why would you text a black butterfly? Blair was a little curious. Figiel didn’t have the courage to tell her past, so she lied and said, The day I was born, many butterflies somehow flew in the garden of my house, and they were all black. In order to commemorate that beautiful moment, I specially went to text a butterfly. Blair heard, more and more feel the novelty, from then on to that butterfly as a treasure. Seeing that her husband didn’t suspect anything, Figiel couldn’t help but secretly breathe a sigh of relief.

    One day, a strange man came to the town of Grasse, and he found Mr. Blair. This strange man looked sleazy, just like a street punk Yes, he was Bill! Bill saw the report about Fiegel on TV and with his heart in the right place, he found his way to the town of Grasse. He’s coming to expose Fiegel’s scars, he’s going to tell Blair that his wife used to be a thief and a rogue bitch!

    Bill inquired about Fiegel’s home and stood waiting outside the fence. At dusk, Blair returned.

    Hey, mister! Bill whistled triumphantly and said as he walked toward Blair, I take it you’re interested in the black butterfly on your wife’s right shoulder? Do you need me to tell you where it came from? Blair looked at the punk in front of him warily, and all kinds of complicated thoughts surged in his heart: what is this person? Why did he come all the way to me? What is his relationship with my wife? The smart Blair heart has guessed seven or eight points, but he is not yet sure. Shameless Bill spoke again: sir, you’ve been tricked by Figiel! She is not a pure woman at all, she followed me at a very early age, we went to rob and steal together. She used to love me to death, don’t you believe it? The butterfly on her right shoulder is the best proof.

    Hearing Bill’s words, Blair said coldly: Thank you very much for coming to tell me this, sir. But, I’m sorry to disappoint you, when my wife and I first met, she already told me all this. I know better than anyone what kind of person my wife is. If you are sensible, please leave here immediately! Hearing Blair’s words, Bill had nothing to say and finally had to leave in disgrace. Looking at the back of the scoundrel, Blair thought: it’s lucky that his wife had something to do today and couldn’t come home, otherwise how sad she would be!

    In fact, Fiegel had intentionally stayed at the Volunteer Corps that day and not gone home because Bill had approached her before he approached Blair. Fiegel knew that Bill was going to uncover her past, but she still wouldn’t agree to the demands Bill made: go back to him, remain a punk, or pay him a confidentiality fee. Refusing to compromise, Fiegel lets Bill tell her husband the truth and then leaves the end of it all to destiny

    Days went by and Blair never mentioned anything about Bill’s visit. Fiegel finally couldn’t help herself, and several times she took it upon herself to bring up the black butterfly as she tried to tell Blair the truth. However, Blair always interrupted her in time every time: oh, dear, you mean our black butterfly? It was rewarded to me by God! Blair’s flattered tone of voice, so that Fijil both touched and happy, she knew that her husband loved her deeply, can not bear to let her look back on the sad past. Fijil finally decided: to keep the secret of the black butterfly for the rest of her life, pretending not to know that Bill had approached her husband.

  • Love off story sharing: the warm journey of finding true love

    Love off story sharing: the warm journey of finding true love

    This is a heartwarming and inspiring love story about the meeting of a pair of strangers and their journey towards happiness guided by fate. Through this true and touching story, we will witness the power of love and the magical arrangement of fate.

    In this busy and complicated world, sometimes love is like a miracle to get out of singlehood unexpectedly.

    Today, I’m going to tell you a warm story of love out of singleness, so that we can believe that fate will bring us a wonderful surprise at the most unexpected moment.

    The main characters of the story are Xiao Hui and Xiao Ming. They live in the same city but are very different.

    Xiaohui is a gentle and kind girl who has always longed for love, but in her busy work and social life, it is hard for her to find her own share of happiness.

    Xiaoming, on the other hand, is a busy white-collar worker with a successful career, but has always been lonely when it comes to relationships.

    Until one day, fate begins to gently guide them to meet.

    By chance, Hui and Ming become volunteers at a charity event. They don’t notice each other right away until an interesting misunderstanding occurs.

    Xiao Hui was trying to help an elderly person in need, but mistook Xiao Ming for that person in need. Although the misunderstanding is quickly resolved, this little episode makes them take a keen interest in each other.

    As time goes by, Hui and Ming begin to meet frequently at social events.

    Each time they met, a marvelous understanding would develop in their hearts, as if each other was one of the missing pieces in their lives. Gradually, they begin to talk, share each other’s stories, and discover what they have in common and where they fit in.

    Xiao Hui’s kind nature and gentle character deeply attracted Xiao Ming, while Xiao Ming’s bright talent and mature temperament also attracted Xiao Hui.

    They feel relaxed and at ease together, and each other’s presence seems to inject new vigor and meaning into each other’s lives.

    Just as Xiao Hui and Xiao Ming are reveling in their mutual love for each other, an unexpected event occurs.

    Xiao Ming receives a job offer from abroad, which means he needs to leave for a while. This sudden departure disturbs and upsets both of them, and they begin to think about how to face this sudden challenge.

    With mutual support and encouragement, Xiaohui and Xiaoming decide to let go of their relationship. Although they may face the test of distance and time, they believe that true love can conquer all.

    Xiao Ming went abroad, while Xiao Hui always stays at home.

    Through daily phone calls, video chats and letters, Hui and Ming keep in close contact.

    Although the distance makes it not so easy for them to get along, they don’t give up; on the contrary, they try even harder to hold on.

    In the midst of thousands of mountains and tens of thousands of water divisions, Xiaohui and Xiaoming use phone calls, videos and letters as bonds of love to maintain each other’s hearts.

    Whether it is the smoke in the morning, the starlight shining at midnight, or the rising sun and the sunset, they use their strong love to cross the screen of time and space, and convey the emotion of “a thousand miles of marriage is linked by a thread”.

    Each conversation is like “if two lovers are in love for a long time, is it not in the morning and the evening”, deeply imprinted in each other’s heart.

    Even though they are separated by thousands of miles of water, they are still steadfastly watching over each other. Even in the face of the hardships of “sailing in the same boat under wind and rain”, they are firmly linked by the faith of “knowing each other is not far away, ten thousand miles are still neighbors” and the heart of “falling in love”. No matter how much fatigue and sleepiness the time difference brought, they did not flinch and walked firmly towards the other side of happiness.

    Xiao Ming’s work mission is finally successfully completed, and he returns triumphantly like a hero who has turned the tide against the wind.

    When he stepped on Xiaohui’s door again, their meeting was like a dream come true, as in the saying, “The sky is long and the earth is long, and this hatred has no expiration date”.

    They embraced each other, tears intertwined with happiness and gratitude, as if they had experienced a “life and death together” after the test of suffering rebirth.

    They know that, having withstood the test of distance, their love has been “made right”.

    They entered a new stage of life with more confidence. Each cozy moment, like the picture of the “full moon”, is full of the fragrance of love.

    Whether sharing a cup of strong coffee or enjoying a concert under the starry sky together, they deeply understand that “love is stronger than gold, love is more delicate than flowers” is the most precious treasure between them.

    This love story tells us that love is a miracle, it can happen at the most unexpected moment. It not only changes our lives, but also makes us more brave and strong.

    In this hustle and bustle world, we should believe in the power of love and bravely pursue our own happiness.

    Whether we are single or not, we have to believe that fate will arrange beautiful encounters for us at the right time.

    Cherish every opportunity to meet and bravely pursue the happiness of love. Just like Xiao Hui and Xiao Ming, let us firmly believe that true love exists in the world, just waiting for us to discover it.

  • Gender emotional story: love reunion around the corner

    Gender emotional story: love reunion around the corner

    In the busy city, people are often in a hurry, chasing their own dreams and happiness. Li Ming and Su Qing, who used to be childhood sweethearts in college, have embarked on very different paths in life because of their own choices. Li Ming stayed in his hometown and took over the family business, while Su Qing went overseas to pursue her dream of becoming an artist. Time flies, the years go by like a shuttle, in the blink of an eye, five years have passed.

    Part I: The Surprise of a Chance Encounter

    It was an unusual weekend afternoon, Li Ming was in a cafe in the city center, waiting for an important business partner. His eyes inadvertently swept over the window, but unexpectedly saw a familiar figure – Su Qing. She was standing in front of the bookstore on the street corner, looking down at the book in her hands, the sunlight sprinkled on her face, gentle and beautiful. Li Ming’s heartbeat involuntarily accelerated, and he almost subconsciously rushed out of the café, running straight towards the girl who had once haunted him.

    “Su Qing!” Li Ming shouted out her name with a hint of trembling in his voice. Su Qing raised her head, a trace of surprise flashed in her eyes, which then turned into a gentle smile. “Li Ming? It’s really you?” The two embraced each other on the street corner, as if time had frozen at this moment, and all the thoughts and regrets turned into tears.

    Part 2: Intertwining of Emotions

    After reuniting, they began to meet frequently, sharing their experiences and changes over the years. Li Ming tells of the pressures and challenges of the family business, while Su Qing shares the hardships and rewards of the artistic path. They found that despite the different trajectories of each other’s lives, the persistence of their dreams and love of life made them understand each other better.

    However, as they got to know each other better, they also realized that the once youthfulness and innocence had now quietly transformed into more complex and profound emotions. Li Ming realizes that he has never forgotten Su Qing, and her place in his heart has always been irreplaceable. As for Su Qing, although she has had a few short-lived relationships overseas, Li Ming’s figure always surfaces in her mind every time she is quiet at night.

    Part III: The Difficulty of Choosing

    However, the reality is always more complicated than imagined. Li Ming shoulders the heavy responsibility of the family business and cannot give it up easily; while Su Qing’s dream of art also requires her to continue her education overseas. They were faced with a difficult choice: to continue to pursue their dreams, or to give up everything for each other?

    During a long conversation late at night, they frankly shared their thoughts and concerns. Li Ming tells Su Qing that he is willing to try to change the status quo for her, to find a way to balance his career and stay with her. Su Qing is also impressed by Li Ming’s sincerity, and she begins to wonder if she really needs to sacrifice her relationship in order to realize her dream of becoming an artist.

    Part 4: The Revelation of Reunion

    After a period of deep thought, they finally found a compromise. Li Ming introduces some innovative management models in the family business, enabling him to spend more time with Su Qing; while Su Qing decides to go back to her home country to develop her artistic talents and bring beauty to more people.

    Their love, after going through the test of time and distance, becomes more tough and precious. They understand that true love is not simply sticking together, but facing the challenges and difficulties of life together on the basis of mutual respect and understanding.

    Epilogue: The Rebirth of Love

    Now, Li Ming and Su Qing have walked hand in hand through countless days and nights. Their love, just like that reunion at the corner, is full of surprises and touches. They use their story to tell everyone who is still pursuing love: no matter how far and difficult the road is, as long as there is love and faith in your heart, one day, you will meet the right person at the corner.

    This story is not only a record of the emotions of both sexes, but also a deep reflection on love and dreams. It makes us understand that true happiness is often hidden in those seemingly ordinary but miracle-filled moments.

  • Emotional story: traveling that year, a romantic affair with a strange man, the best memories

    Emotional story: traveling that year, a romantic affair with a strange man, the best memories

    My name is Lin Wan and I am 28 years old. I am a freelancer, usually I like to travel, go to different places to see the scenery and take some photos. I think this kind of life is very free and interesting. I don’t have a regular boyfriend, and I don’t want to get married and have children, I think these are shackles that bind me. I just want to live my own life without anyone’s interference.

    Last summer, I traveled to Yunnan, where the scenery was really beautiful and made me linger. I stayed there for a month and went to different places every day. One day, I went to a place called Dali, where I heard that there was a very beautiful lake called Erhai and an old town called Ancient City by the lake.

    I was very curious, so I decided to go there to have a look. I took a bus to the ancient city, got off and started to walk around. The ancient town was very unique, with many ethnic buildings and stores, and many stalls selling various specialties and handicrafts. As I walked around, I found a stall selling silver jewelry, which was filled with all kinds of exquisite silverware.

    I was interested in silver jewelry, so I walked over to have a look. The stall owner was a young man, very handsome, wearing a white shirt and a pair of black pants, looking very clean and sharp. When he saw me come over, he greeted me warmly, “How are you, miss, welcome to my stall. These are all my handmade silver jewelry, they are all sterling silver oh, see if you like any.”

    With that, he picked up some silver jewelry to show me. He was wearing a silver ring on his hand with a dragon pattern carved on it, very imposing. When he saw me staring at his ring, he smiled and said, “This is my signature work, a ring made of a dragon head carved out of white jade, a specialty of Yunnan, and silver bars. The dragon is a Chinese symbol that represents power and honor. Do you want to try it?”

    After saying that, he took the ring off his hand and handed it to me. A little embarrassed, I took it and tried it on my own finger. The ring fit well and was beautiful, sparkling in the sunlight. I asked him, “How much is this?”

    He smiled and said, “Well, it’s not too expensive. Give you a discount, just 998 yuan.”

    I heard a shock: “998 yuan? So expensive ah?”

    He said, “Expensive? Actually not expensive. Think about it, this is made of sterling silver and white jade, and is a unique design. You can’t get a ring like this anywhere else. And you’ll look so pretty and elegant with it. You’re as beautiful as a princess.”

    He spoke with a frothy mouth and complimented me on my looks and temperament from time to time. I was secretly happy to hear this, but felt that he was too good at talking. Although I was very fond of the ring, 998 dollars was still too expensive for me. I thought about it and said, “Forget it, although this ring is very pretty, it’s still too expensive for me. And I don’t like wearing rings.”

    When he saw that I was going to leave, he hurriedly pulled my hand and said, “Miss Miss, please don’t go, please reconsider. You really don’t want this ring? You know what? This ring is destined for you. Do you know why? Because this ring was made for you.”

    I asked curiously, “Made for me? What does that mean?”

    He smiled mysteriously and said, “Actually, I am a person with precognition. I can tell people’s past and future by reading their faces and palms. And I can also sense their destiny through silver jewelry. Don’t you believe me? Look, the dragon head on this ring represents your destiny. You are a person with noble blood, your ancestor was a royal family member, you have the temperament and charisma of royalty. And the silver bar on this ring is representing your love. You are a person with romantic feelings, you long for a love that is engraved in your heart, and you will meet someone who can support, understand and cherish each other with you. And the white jade on this ring represents your happiness. You are a person with a kind heart, you will have a happy and fulfilling family, and you will live in a peaceful and tranquil environment. These are all things I have sensed through this ring, and I have sensed something even more important.”

    I listened with growing curiosity and asked him, “What more important thing?”

    He said, “That is …… this ring was built to match you. That is to say, this ring can only be worn by you, no one else will fit. And this ring also has a special function, which is that it can help you find your true destiny. As long as you wear it, it will send out a special signal for you to meet up with that person. And that person will also have a strong attraction to this ring and he will approach you and strike up a conversation with you. And then you’ll realize that you hit it off with each other, that you have something in common, that you have a great feeling. Then you will fall in love and start a romantic and beautiful relationship. All of these are what I have sensed through this ring, and there is absolutely no mistaking it.”

    When I heard that, I didn’t know whether to believe it or not. He spoke sincerely and movingly, but it was too unbelievable. I asked him, “Then …… who is that person?”

    He said, “That person …… is me.”

    I froze when I heard that. I didn’t know if he was joking or if he was serious. His eyes were firm and deep. He said, “You don’t believe it? You can try it. As soon as you put on this ring, you will feel a special power, and you will feel my love for you. You will also feel an irresistible attraction to me and you will fall in love with me too. We are the perfect couple, the destined partners. You might as well give us a chance to let our love blossom.”

    After saying that, he grabbed my hand and put the ring back on my finger. He moved so quickly that I didn’t have time to react. He said, “Look, how this ring fits you, how beautiful. Just like our love, how perfect. Do you feel it? Do you feel the bond between us?”

    I looked at him, and at the ring, and my heart was a little confused. I didn’t know if he was really clairvoyant or if the ring was really magical. But I had to admit that his words made my heart flutter. I had a sense of curiosity and interest in him, and a desire to get closer and understand. I thought that maybe what he said was true, and maybe we really were meant for each other.

    I thought for a moment and said, “Well, since you say so, then I’ll believe you once. But you have to promise me one thing.”

    He said, “What is it? Just tell me.”

    I said, “That is …… you have to take me to the Erhai to see.”

    He said, “Sure, no problem. I’ll be happy to take you to Erhai. The scenery there is beautiful and it’s perfect for our date. When do you want to go?”

    I said, “Let’s go now. I don’t have anything planned anyway, so I just want to see the beauty of the place.”

    He said, “Okay, let’s go then. I know a place where you can rent bicycles and ride along the lake, it’s very pleasant.”

    After saying that, he took my hand and led me away. I followed him, a little apprehensive and a little expectant. I didn’t know what was going to happen on this trip, or what he would do to me. But I felt that since I was already wearing this ring, it meant that I had accepted his love. Maybe this is my destiny, maybe this is my happiness.

    We soon arrived at the bike rental place and he picked out a white bike for me and he rode a black one himself. He said, “Look, our bikes are as black and white as our clothes. What a couple.”

    I looked at him, he was wearing a black t-shirt and a pair of black jeans, while I was wearing a white dress and a pair of white sandals. It was indeed a black and white match, and it did have a bit of a couple look to it. I couldn’t help but smile and said, “You’re so talkative.”

    He said, “It’s not talking, it’s the truth. We really match. Don’t you believe me? Look at our rings.”

    With that, he reached his finger over and laced it with mine. I looked and realized that he was also wearing a silver ring on his hand just like mine. Only that instead of a dragon pattern, his ring was engraved with a phoenix pattern.

    I was surprised and asked, “What does this …… this mean?”

    He said, “This is one of my signature pieces, a ring made of a phoenix head carved out of red agate, a Yunnan specialty, and a silver bar. The phoenix is one of the symbols of China, representing beauty and nobility. This ring is a pair with the one you have, which means dragon and phoenix. Look, both of us are wearing such rings, what a destiny.”

    I don’t know if he really has precognition, or if it’s all really fated. But I felt that since he said so, then I should believe him. Maybe this is fate, maybe this is my luck.

    I looked at him, smiled slightly, and said, ”Alright, then I’ll believe you. Let’s go to Erhai now then.”

    He said, “Okay, let’s go then. I promise you’ll love the scenery there.”

    After saying that, he got on his bike and led me in the direction of Erhai. I followed him, a little nervous and a little expectant. I didn’t know what would happen on this trip, nor did I know what would happen to our love. But I felt that since I had already put on this ring, it meant that I had accepted his love. Maybe this is my destiny, maybe this is my happiness.

    We soon arrived at the Erhai Sea, where the scenery was really beautiful, the lake was turquoise and sparkling, glittering in the sunlight. There were a lot of green plants around the lake, and some flowers and butterflies. The air was fresh and comfortable. We parked our bikes to one side and walked along the lake for a while. He introduced me to the local customs and people along the way and took a lot of pictures of me. He said, “Look how beautiful and natural you are here. You’re like a fairy, mesmerizing.”

    When I heard that, my face turned red and I said, “Don’t talk nonsense.”

    He said, “I’m not talking nonsense, I’m genuinely complimenting you. You’re really beautiful and special. You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen.”

    When I heard that, I was a little sweet and a little embarrassed. I said, “You’re also very handsome and talented. You’re the most attractive man I’ve ever met.”

    He said, “Really? Do you really think so?”

    I said, “Of course I do, how could I lie to you?”

    He said, “Do you like me?”

    I said, “Yes, of course I like you.”

    He said, “Then will you be my girlfriend?”

    I said, “Yes, of course I want to be your girlfriend.”

    He said, “Will you go with me?”

    I said, “Walk? Go where?”

    He said, “Anywhere. As long as we’re together, there’s nothing we can’t do. We can go to see all kinds of scenery in the world, we can experience different cultures, we can go to find more fun. We can do whatever we want, as long as we’re happy. Would you like to go with me?”

    When I heard that, I was a little hesitant and a little heartbroken. I thought to myself, going with him is really tempting and romantic. But I also thought that going with him would also mean giving up a lot of things, like my family, my friends, my job. I didn’t know if I could make that choice. I asked him, “Are you …… you serious?”

    He said, “Of course I’m serious. I’ve never been more serious. You are my destiny, you are my soul mate. I can’t live without you, I want to live with you and grow old together. Do you believe me?”

    He looked at me with love and anticipation in his eyes. His words touched me and shook me. I didn’t know how to answer him, and there was a complex emotion in my heart. Just then, there was a sudden clap of thunder, followed by heavy rain. We were soaked to the skin by the rain, and we rushed to a pavilion to hide from the rain. There were only the two of us in the pavilion, and the sound of rain and thunder covered up all other sounds. We were speechless relative to each other, only able to listen to the sound of the rain and each other’s heartbeats.

    He suddenly grabbed my hand and said, “I know you’re hesitating, I know you have a lot of concerns. But I also know that you have feelings for me and you want to be with me. You don’t have to worry about anything, I will protect you, I will take care of you, and I will make you happy. All you have to do is follow me and you’ll be fine. Do you trust me?”

    His words made my heart tighten as I looked into his eyes and realized that he was really serious and sincere. The look in his eyes was too much for me to refuse, and his words were too much for me to deny. I thought, maybe what he said was true, maybe going with him was the best choice for me. Maybe this is my destiny, maybe this is my happiness.

    I bit my lip, nodded, and said, “Okay, I believe you. I’m willing to go with you.”

    When he heard that, he smiled happily and said, “Really? Are you really willing?”

    I said, “Really, I’m really willing.”

    He said, “That’s great, that’s great. You won’t regret it, you won’t regret it.”

    After saying that, he hugged me and kissed my forehead, my eyes, my nose, and finally my lips. His kisses were gentle, passionate, and deep. His kiss made me forget everything, the sound of rain and thunder, time and space. I only felt his breath and heartbeat, his love and temperature. I responded to his kisses and hugged his body tightly. We kissed passionately like that in the pavilion, as if the whole world was just the two of us.

    We don’t know when the rain stopped, and we don’t know how long we kissed. All we knew was that we were completely intoxicated by our love for each other and couldn’t help ourselves. We decided that from today onwards, we would walk together, no matter how many storms and difficulties lay ahead. We believe that our love can overcome everything, and we believe that our destiny can last forever.

    This is our story, this is our beginning.

  • Real love has a physical reaction, three kisses on one date – Xiao Li’s love story

    Real love has a physical reaction, three kisses on one date – Xiao Li’s love story

    Xiao Yang and Xiao Li met at a friend’s party, and after a period of chatting, Xiao Yang confessed his love to Xiao Li. They went through the challenges of a long-distance relationship and separation, and eventually came back together for their wedding. At the wedding, Xiao Yang kissed Xiao Li three times, symbolizing the three times rebirth of their love. This love story makes us realize that love is not just a collision of passions, but also a bonding of hearts.

    Love, the old and timeless topic, always touches the heart without realizing it. It is said that true love has a physical reaction, three kisses on one date. It’s not just a physical intimacy, but also an uncontrollable stirring in the depths of the heart. Today, let’s listen to the love story of Xiao Yang and Xiao Li and feel the ups and downs of that emotional journey.

    I. First acquaintance

    Xiao Yang and Xiao Li met at a friend’s party. At that time, Xiao Yang was still a shy big boy, while Xiaoli was a lively and cheerful girl. After the party, they added each other’s WeChat and began to chat frequently. Gradually, the two found that they have a lot in common with each other, and the topic is more and more. Soon after, they fell into a deep liking.

    Second, the first date

    After a period of understanding, Xiao Yang decided to confess to Xiaoli. He chose a romantic restaurant, carefully prepared gifts and love letters. That night, Xiaoli appeared at the door of the restaurant wearing a beautiful dress. Xiao Yang nervously walked up and confessed his love to Xiaoli. Surprisingly, Xiaoli didn’t agree with him right away, but put forward a condition: if tonight’s date satisfies her, she agrees to be Xiao Yang’s girlfriend.

    During the date, Xiao Yang and Xiao Li talked very much. After dinner, they strolled along the riverside, enjoying the beautiful night scenery. At this time, Xiao Yang gathered courage and gently whispered in Xiao Li’s ear, “I’m very happy about tonight’s date, aren’t you?” Xiao Li smiled shyly and didn’t say anything. Looking at her shy expression, an impulse surged in Xiao Yang’s heart and he couldn’t help but gently kiss Xiao Li. This was their first kiss, and at that moment, it was as if time had frozen.

    III. Twists and Turns

    However, happiness did not come as promised. After they formalized their relationship, Xiao Yang was transferred to another city for work reasons. Facing the challenge of a long-distance relationship, both Xiao Yang and Xiao Li felt very painful. They tried hard to maintain the relationship, but the cruelty of reality still made them drift apart.

    One day, Xiaoli suddenly told Xiao Yang that she was going abroad for further study. This news shocked Xiao Yang, who realized that the distance between them was getting farther and farther. On the day he saw her off at the airport, Xiao Yang couldn’t help but hug Xiao Li, tears slipping down on her shoulders. Xiao Li also said with teary eyes, “Maybe, we are really not suitable to be together.”

    IV. Reunion

    A year later, Xiao Yang learned that Xiaoli had returned to China. With trepidation, he came to Xiaoli’s residence. The moment he knocked on the door, his heart was full of expectation. The door opened and Xiaoli appeared in front of him. Looking at her familiar face, Xiao Yang couldn’t help but hug her tightly again.

    That night, they talked a lot. Xiao Yang told Xiao Li that he had never forgotten her, and Xiao Li also frankly said that she could never let go of Xiao Yang in her heart. During the conversation, they realized that their hearts were still tightly connected. When they parted, Xiao Yang kissed Xiao Li’s forehead and said, “Let’s start over.” Xiao Li’s tearful eyes with a smile, nodded.

    V. Three Kisses

    Since then, Xiao Yang and Xiao Li started a new life. They worked hard together and faced all the challenges of life together. Soon after, they held a simple and cozy wedding. At the wedding, Xiao Yang kissed Xiaoli three times, symbolizing the three rebirths of their love.

    True love has a physical reaction. The love story of Xiao Yang and Xiao Li makes us realize that love is not only the collision of passion, but also the fit of the heart. In the face of adversity, they firmly chose each other, with practical action to explain the meaning of true love. Let’s bless them, may their love last forever!

  • Unexpected “blind date

    Unexpected “blind date

    A girl named Lily met a boy on social media, and when they hit it off, the boy asked her to meet him. Lily agrees, but she doesn’t realize it’s a “blind date” because the boy doesn’t tell her what he looks like or who he is.
    When Lily arrives at the meeting place, she realizes that the boy has not shown up. She started to feel a little worried, but suddenly someone tapped her on the shoulder and she turned around and was surprised to find a man in a black suit and sunglasses, who greeted her and introduced himself.
    It turned out that this man was her date, and the reason he hadn’t told Lily who he was ahead of time was because he wanted to surprise her. He also prepared a luxurious dinner and a luxury sports car, so that Lily had a very memorable night.
    Story 2: Knightly Romance
    There was a boy named Jack who had been dating his girlfriend Lily for a long time. He wanted to plan a very romantic date for Lily, so he decided to play a knight and create a fairytale world for Lily.
    When Lily arrives at the appointed place, she finds Jack waiting for her in a knight’s outfit, holding a sword. He shows Lily a heart-shaped pattern made of colorful balloons and flowers and sings her a song.
    Next, Jack took Lily into a romantically decorated restaurant. He prepared a delicious dinner for Lily and performed a passionate dance for her afterward.
    Lily was so touched and happy by this date that she felt like she was in a fairy tale world.
    Story 3: An Unexpected Surprise
    There was a girl named Amy who had been dating her boyfriend Peter for a long time. Once, they were having dinner together in a restaurant, when suddenly the waiter delivered a gift, saying that Peter had ordered it.
    Amy opened the gift and found that it contained a bunch of tiny slips of paper. She began to open the notes one by one and found that they contained heartwarming words and memories.
    The last note read, “Do you remember where we first met? Come on, let’s go there.” Amy followed this hint and went to the place where they first met, and when she walked to that place, she saw a romantic scene where Peter was waiting for her with a bouquet of flowers in his hand and asked her to marry him.
    Amy was so touched that she hugged Peter and tearfully said yes to his proposal. The date was a great surprise and happiness for Amy and she felt that it was the best day of her life.
    Summarize
    Dating is a very special and important social activity that allows people to get to know each other better, build relationships and enjoy happiness. In dating, some people will choose traditional ways, such as visiting relatives to pay respect to the New Year, watching movies, going to restaurants and so on; while others will choose innovative ways, such as playing knights, creating a fairy tale world, giving surprise gifts and so on. No matter which way it is, as long as it can make the other person feel happy, touched and blissful, it is a successful date.

  • There’s not a relationship in this world that isn’t full of holes.

    There’s not a relationship in this world that isn’t full of holes.

    Eileen Chang once said despairingly and sadly: “born in this world, there is no kind of feelings are not full of holes.”

    A love to this point, the wisp of love has been gone, if you can hold on, maybe you can pull away the clouds, meet the rainbow.

    You have seen after the first love, after three years, and can get back together?

    You have seen after the loss of everything, his first love can still go against his will to help him, and he lived and died with him.

    You may say it’s impossible, but it’s just a coincidence that Sawatari met her.

    01

    It was a rainy night, Ruoxi’s red dress fluttered in the wind and rain, her body swayed like a willow, the bystanders were surprised to see, they were amazed at Ruoxi’s posture, the softness of the dancing waist.

    “The rain has stopped”, Ruoxi looked up to see that there was an extra leaf in the sky to cover the rain, it was Zeyu who used his shirt to block the rain for Ruoxi.

    Ruoxi didn’t care about Zeyu’s bare upper body, and said thank you one by one. Two people who do not know each other, as if they have known each other for a thousand years, all the way to the cozy silence, do not speak are quite beautiful.

    Ruoxi has never been in love, Zeyu’s appearance makes her heart in turmoil, just like a little bit of ink dripping into the water, water ripples, do not know where to spread.

    02

    The next evening, Ruoxi went to thank Zeyu for sheltering her from the wind and rain, only then did she realize that Zeyu was her senior, Zeyu smiled and said, “I’ve long known that you are a great talent, and I’m honored to serve you.”

    The evening sun behind Ruoxi reflected her scarlet face, especially bright and vivid. Zeyu blurted out, “The bun is suitable for the palace style, the lotus face is tender, and the body is red and fragrant. The eyebrows do not need to be painted, the sky into the sideburns long. I don’t want to rely on the appearance of the country, but I want to marry a man with love. Each other back then less, don’t lose the good time.”

    This is the Tang Xuanzong wrote a euphemistic little order “good time”, Ruoxi did not understand over, a careful thought, hands cover the face shyly a smoke away.

    Ruoxi lonely more than twenty years of youth, to the time when the mountain flowers bloom, can no longer block the bee’s entanglement, Ruoxi is so with Zeyu fell in love, and love without complaint.

    03

    Zeyu after graduation, the family arranged for him to go abroad, and Ruoxi long-distance relationship did not take long, lost contact.

    Ruoxi do not know why Zeyu no news, she hated, she closed for Zeyu, she often for the thought of frustration, her heart and body fatigue, the whole person has lost a circle.

    That once lively and naughty, and Chu Chu moving Ruoxi?

    Too many high-quality men resentful, constantly persuade Ruoxi, everyone volunteered to guard her, but whenever the moment of spring, Ruoxi will cry and leave.

    Ruoxi was too much in love, she was too much in pursuit of perfection, and she wasn’t willing to let Zeyu abandon her like that.

    She said that if she were to walk into a man’s heart again, she would have to wait for Zeyu to show up again and piss him off.

    04

    Zeyu arrived abroad not long after the car accident, his left foot can not feel, he loved Ruoxi, he did not want to let Ruoxi life because he suffered, he decided not to contact her, let her fly high alone.

    The poor people will be hateful, the two people are so attached to each other, grudges, dating in the dream, blame each other.

    Or God has eyes, two years later Zeyu’s left foot was miraculously well. After the joy, Zeyu was bewildered, his fingers slipped to Ruoxi’s phone number countless times, only he really did not have the courage to contact Ruoxi.

    Zeyu’s parents are not very good health, business operations have problems, and then Zeyu returned home to inherit his father’s business, but unfortunately Zeyu and then try to be powerless to return to heaven, the business fell into the dilemma of closure.

    In Zeyu’s life can be described as many disasters. Fortunately, Zeyu’s matter let Ruoxi know, she stood alone quietly countless times outside the window of Zeyu’s office quietly waiting, she wanted to see Zeyu, she wanted to understand three years later, Zeyu whether she still remembered her.

    05

    It was another rainy night, Ruoxi was still wearing a red dress, Zeyu saw a familiar figure in the rainy night, he recklessly rushed up and covered Ruoxi with his piece of clothing.

    “Ruoxi”, Zeyu exclaimed, he kissed Ruoxi obliviously, he didn’t care who Ruoxi was this evening? He only wanted her, he must hold her tightly and never leave her again.

    After a burst of warmth, Ruoxi couldn’t help but bawl. After a few moments of confiding in each other, the two decided to recover their lost youth and recapture the love they had when they first fell in love.

    With Ruoxi on board, Zeyu’s potential is unlimitedly tapped, and he seems to have inexhaustible energy, working day and night to save the dying company.

    06

    A year later, the company finally turned around and Ruoxi and Zeyu entered the marriage hall.

    On that day, Ruoxi was as beautiful and gentle as a lily fairy, and she and Zeyu seemed to have walked into the mountain wilderness where camellias were in full bloom, obliviously inhaling the morning dew, and their hearts were as clear as if they had been washed.

    Born in this world, there is no kind of feelings are not full of holes, only after the ordeal can still hold on to the love of love, can be like Ruoxi and Zeyu, peacefully holding hands, walking through the ditches and hurdles of life.

  • Mind reading: women who know how to image packaging, more men like

    Mind reading: women who know how to image packaging, more men like

    It is said that beautiful women love people, many people take themselves as a member of the Association of Appearance and proud, the face value of the high and low decision of others to judge you good or bad, in fact, this is the reality.

    We often see major live platforms, video communication platforms in a variety of handsome men and women in the wonderful interpretation, watching them to attract millions of eyes focus, every day to earn a lot of money.

    So many people will be afraid, afraid of these handsome men and women went astray, embarked on a road of no return, but a number of years later, those handsome men and women or find their destiny, the days are very happy.

    This is life, you think it is impossible, it is possible to become a reality, and is a cocoon into a butterfly, live a new life.

    Ying’er is such a woman, in school she likes to sing and dance, her artistic skills far beyond her major, teachers often say Ying’er, it would be better to enroll in the art profession more development.

    After graduation, Ying’er’s work is ordinary, every day is as busy as a robot, this busy is two or three years.

    Every time Ying Er shopping, see the street wearing gold and silver girl always sigh, why others can always live out their own, but they can not?

    The most sad Ying’er is the boss’s daughter, posture flat, but there are a lot of men appreciate her, like her, pursue her, and beautiful and dignified Ying’er but no one asked, is it because the boss’s daughter of a set of cosmetics on the value of Ying’er three months of salary?

    Ying’er decided to quit her job, she would rather be poor than suffer from that, she decided to start her own business and live her life properly.

    Ying’er has been an anchor and a graphic model. Finally, Ying’er found her niche and made her way back to being the protagonist in many video renditions, and she succeeded.

    Ying’er’s every appearance will attract millions of people’s likes and comments, those who appreciate it, those who praise it, and those who pursue her even more.

    Ying’s success has also brought her a considerable income, looking at the day into the gold of their own, Ying sighed: “the original self is really too stupid and naive, the original life needs a sense of ceremony, only know how to image packaging of the woman, in order to let the man more like.”

    Ying’er is gifted and intelligent, she saw herself constantly consuming the stunning beauty, overdrawing the youthful years, so she quit at the peak moment of her life, she wanted to use enough money to earn enough money to incubate herself again, she decided to enter the university once again to further her studies.

    This time to study Ying’er exceptionally hard, she spent ten times, a hundred times the effort, she became a well-deserved school bully, she often said: “I did not expect my dream to come true, I also became a school bully, this feeling is really good.”

    Ying’s object is a rich second-generation, study as hard as her, Ying’s said: “rich second-generation does not sound a good term, but love without bread is not necessarily a good thing, although I do not lack of money to spend, but I still want to find a like-minded people.”

    Ying’er’s idea is right, if it is a hard-working and progressive rich second generation, it is not necessarily a bad thing to befriend him, after all, when life is struggling, there is no bread, and where is the happy life?

    Ying’er is a very hard woman, the rich second-generation and Ying’er after falling in love as a treasure, often guarding Ying’er, Ying’er study late into the night, he also has no choice but to do his companion Lang.

    Ying Er’s behavior but urged the second generation of rich people, he was like a change of person, and finally Ying Er and the second generation of rich people married.

    Not long after the marriage, Ying’er opened their own fashion specialty stores, Ying’er spent more than two years to establish their own chain of channels, the cause of doing a good job.

    Now Ying Er is both the image of their own brand spokesman, but also their own boss, often busy and happy, and stable relationship, life is very happy.

    Ying Er’s story tells us that the importance of a good image package for women is self-evident.

    The image packaging we are referring to here does not mean that a woman has an empty surface and is a vase that everyone can admire, but rather a woman who is consistent in her appearance and has both beauty and talent.

    In fact, to shape such a self easy to say, do and how hard it is, because every bright and beautiful woman, behind the scenes are inexhaustible heartache, just that you do not see it.

    So it is better to fall in love with a woman who knows how to image packaging than to fall in love with her heartache, her diligence, her obsession.

    If you fall in love with such a woman, then you must cherish it, cherish it, do not do wasteful things, so both a waste of feelings, and lost youth.

  • 35-year-old single girl confessed: my three relationships, ultimately ended in vain, doomed to be alone in the future

    35-year-old single girl confessed: my three relationships, ultimately ended in vain, doomed to be alone in the future

    Love is the most afraid of “destiny but not points”, exhausted time and energy, but ultimately had to let go.

    However, just as not all flowers can meet, not all love can be accomplished.

    Fate gathered and dispersed, people come and go, missed no longer look back, separated has been separated, and those who have walked into our hearts, has been with the passage of time and gradually far away, no way to recall.

    Life is so, there are always some regrets and reluctance, hidden in the depths of the soul, sometimes throbbing, sometimes sour. Once I love you, once the oath of friendship, has long gone with the wind.

    People often lamented “the creation of people”. But those who pass by, may not be suitable; deviation from the original intention, may not be unable to stay together, spend the rest of their lives.

    Love may be like this: in the right time, the right place, meet the right person, you can’t have one without the other. Doomed destiny, but ultimately also rely on their own to fight, to cherish.

    The path to love for a 35 year old single girl
    Hello everyone! My name is Xiaofang, I’m 35 years old, unmarried, and I’m what everyone calls an “older woman”.

    In fact, I’m not bad looking, figure is also good, work is also good, the middle has talked about 3 times in love, but ultimately did not end.

    In the university to pursue me quite a lot of people, but I’m not too sensitive to men and women, but also relatively residential, in addition to classes, like the Internet, playing games, perfectly missed the experience of the university love period accumulation.

    Two years after I graduated from college, when I was 25 years old, a male colleague started to pursue me.

    He was two years older than me, 1.79 meters tall, handsome, and my favorite type. I don’t know why he liked me, but anyway, I enjoyed the feeling that he was nice to me and fell without realizing it.

    After we became boyfriend and girlfriend, I realized that he wasn’t that interested in me, sometimes he didn’t come to pick me up from work, and he didn’t send me breakfast in the morning.

    I think men are probably like this, get it will not cherish, also did not say anything.

    This relationship lasted half a year, he asked me to break up. Because he was my first boyfriend, but also my favorite type, I was very reluctant, I did not agree. After that, our relationship was so different that sometimes I couldn’t find him for two or three days.

    I didn’t realize I was being cheated on until one day when the new girl at the front desk came to me and told me to leave her boyfriend.

    I feel very sad, very disgusted and insulted, I can’t imagine that the first time I fell in love with a scumbag. So they pulled black all his communication methods, resigned and left the company.

    Two years later, a colleague in the new unit introduced a 30-year-old unmarried boy to me, that person is very enthusiastic about me, every day morning, noon and night will look for me to chat, emotional intelligence is quite high, talking to make me feel very comfortable.

    However, I was very mindful of his height and looks because he was not good looking and was all less than 1.7 meters tall, which did not fit the image I had in mind for my partner.

    At the beginning I was not too happy, but can not help him to make me happy every day, to my heart, contact a few times, dinner, chat, watch a movie, feel okay, and do not feel too diaphragmatic.

    After contact, I found that he is very good-tempered, attentive to me, and very progressive, in the third-tier city where we live, his annual salary reached 20W +.

    However, his family is not very well off, his hometown is in a remote rural area, his grandmother and father are always sick, and most of his income is sent back home for his family’s medical treatment and household expenses.

    When my parents knew about his situation, they insisted that I break up with him, saying that his family was a heavy burden and he was ugly, so he would not be happy after marrying him.

    I can not argue with my parents, think they are also for my good, so they took the initiative and he broke up.

    Now it seems, I made the most stupid decision, now he has long been over a million dollars a year, has a car and a house, and there are shares of the company, and married a wife who knows the cold and hot, for him to have a pair of lovely children.

    After that breakup, I don’t want to look for someone outside, because it’s hard to get together without knowing the people outside.

    When I was 30 years old, my family began to be anxious about my marriage, and I was introduced to a boyfriend who was a graduate student and a civil servant in an administrative unit.

    Maybe it is the reason that I read a lot of books, that boy’s character is very introverted, do not like to communicate with others, hair a little bald, looks very ordinary, looks and does not feel.

    However, my father likes this kind of bookish boy, and says that boys are honest and reassuring outside. And he has a stable job.

    He will never have to worry about being laid off in the future.

    Under my father’s strong set up and approval, he and I met four times, did not talk a few times, in the discussion of both parents engaged in the marriage.

    At that time, my family mentioned 18W bride price, the other party although gave, but his mother face is not good, from time to time to others, “a 30-year-old girl, still need so much bride price!”

    After I got engaged, I realized that I was very unsuitable with his personality.

    During that time, I was under a lot of pressure at work, so I looked for him to confide in him, but he simply ignored me, only focusing on his own reading or playing the phone, and didn’t know to enlighten me.

    Moreover, he is also a mama’s boy, I told him all sorts of things, he will tell her mother originally, sometimes I complained to his mother, he will also be transferred to his mother, the result is that his mother to count me again.

    Since my education is lower than his and my job is not as stable as his, even though my income is twice as much as his, his mom still despises me from the bottom of her heart.

    His mother felt that I was a high climber, saying, “You, a 30-year-old girl, it is God’s favor that you can be engaged to my son, if not for the fact that my son is so honest, my family would not be able to look at you.”

    He also said, “Your family asked for 18W bride price, do you want to pay for the house and car later?”

    His mother’s words every time I choked tears, but my fiancé was there looking at me, like an outsider, very cold.

    The next year, my father asked me how I was getting along with him, I couldn’t stop my tears then, and told of all the hardships. My father was so angry that he went to his house and had a terrible fight, and then he withdrew from the marriage.

    After the withdrawal, a lot of public opinion turned against my family, saying that my family was hard to talk to and unkind, and some people even said that my family had cheated on the marriage, which made my father and me very angry.

    After that, basically no one introduced me to anyone. And as I got older, I also became unattached.

    Now, I’m not interested in finding a partner more and more, and I’m also indifferent to marriage, the big deal is that I’ll be alone until I grow old, it’s better than being in a marriage with a chicken and a dog.

    Author’s Opinion.
    Sterling once said, “The most beautiful and the most painful is love! The noblest and the lowest is marriage and family!”

    A beautiful love makes one’s spirit happy, and a painful love makes one’s mind all over the place, depending on what kind of person one meets.

    Xiaofang, in the article, has experienced three romances but none of them worked out in the end, for other people’s reasons and of course for her own.

    In the first relationship, she only chose her favorite, but did not investigate the character, background, and reputation of the other party, and blindly invested in feelings, and as a result, she met a scumbag.

    In the second relationship, when a potential, to her heart, upwardly mobile boy in front of her, she again disliked people’s family is not good, the burden of listening to her family’s views and break up with him. But I did not realize that these things are things that can be changed, and buried their own happiness in vain.

    In the third relationship, when the age increases, it should be appropriate to reduce the conditions, lower the goal, to find a suitable object for themselves. But she coveted the other party’s good conditions, but also proposed a high bride price, and ultimately let the two sides of the family conflicts, to part ways and end.

    In fact, for most girls, it is not difficult to marry, but difficult to convince themselves to marry. If you insist on perfection in your heart and are unwilling to lower your requirements, the end result is likely to be a lonely old man.

  • A Married Woman’s Emotional Fact Sheet: The Story of My Husband and I Is More Exaggerated Than a TV Show

    A Married Woman’s Emotional Fact Sheet: The Story of My Husband and I Is More Exaggerated Than a TV Show

    Weekend, my girlfriends and I near the suburbs, back on the road, the car broke down, the car was towed away, just to the meal, we went to the nearby hotel to eat, in the parking lot even saw the husband’s car, the husband clearly said that today overtime. We walked into the hotel, just to see her husband holding a girl’s hand out of the elevator, angry I directly greeted, the back of the matter can be imagined ……
    I am 35 years old, accountant, husband 39 years old, vice president of the company, we have been married for 10 years, daughter 8 years old, son 5 years old. We were introduced by a friend to meet, at that time I did not look at my husband, but did not resent, but my husband has been chasing me, and finally I was impressed by his sincerity.

    After getting married, my husband has always spoiled me very much, what I did not expect is that my husband, who spoils me and loves me so much, would betray me. That day I saw him and a girl arm in arm out, I greeted, directly hit the woman.
    After returning home, I filed for divorce, my husband refused to agree, he said he did not want to divorce, said he just did not resist the temptation for a moment, he also swore that he would be clean with that woman.
    Since that incident, he begged me for forgiveness, I was better than before, I forgave him a moment of weakness, although I forgave him, but, whenever the night is quiet, or when I’m alone, I can’t help but think of him with the woman in the picture, the more I think the more difficult, the heart simply can’t get over that hurdle, I’m very entangled, and the pain is unbearable. Mr. Xu Chuan, we now live under one roof, he looked for me, I ignore him, look at his painful appearance, I am also very heartbroken, but I just do not know how to accept him again, we can still do back to normal couples? Please help me.

    Xu Chuan:
    This lady, I can understand how you feel right now, although you say you forgive, but in your heart you don’t forgive, you also try to forgive him through your actions, and he is trying to please you, trying to atone for his sins in this way. From the surface of all the signs, in fact, you still want to forgive him, you just can’t do it, so you turn to me for help, and I thank you for your trust in me and my team. Next, let’s take a look at why your marriage has developed into this situation.
    First of all, from your narrative can be seen, you are married for such a long time, your husband has always loved you and spoiled you, it can be said that he is still a qualified husband, but also do the duties of a husband. But why would such a responsible husband do such a thing?
    From your account, he said he could not resist the temptation to do so, but do you believe it? I don’t think so. Why do I say so? Because a marriage consists of several stages, respectively: the stage of passionate love, the newlywed bonding stage, the sweet stage, the dull stage, the rupture stage.

    So which stages are prone to extramarital affairs? The flat phase. And ten years of marriage has entered the bland stage of marriage. At this time the feelings of the two people are more lukewarm, bland as water, if there is a woman who suddenly broke into his life, it will bring him to fall in love with the passion and throbbing, if the woman happens to be able to meet some of his or even the whole needs, then this time, he will be in place.
    Secondly, your husband was found, obviously a bit of a thief, he begged you for forgiveness, want to return to the family, you are better than before, these are all indications that he is trying to maintain your marriage, want to live a good life, but also shows that he has the desire to return to the family. If you really do not want to forgive him, you can choose to divorce, to meet the life they want; if you want to live better and better days with him, then put down the put it down, the more eyes do not rub sand, the more the pain will surround you and your marriage.